
This section takes the questions I have as someone who cares for a person with BPD and tries to find answers in science, medicine and therapeutic approaches. I’m not an expert — just curious and searching for evidence that connects with real life.

When you’re supporting someone with BPD, the loneliness can be hard to name — let alone solve. And the usual advice on how to stop feeling lonely often falls flat. But there are two evidence-backed approaches that can reduce what loneliness is doing to your body, and make you feel better.

Your loved one is the one with BPD — so why do you feel so dreadful? The answer might be in your body, not your mind.

Having BPD and nothing else is the exception, not the rule. So why is most support still built around single diagnoses?

A new NHS survey suggests almost 1 in 10 young women screen positive for BPD — and nearly half of those screening positive report getting no treatment at all. So what is this really measuring: a disorder, or the pressure young women are living under?

A look at how one of the most misunderstood mental health diagnoses ended up with multiple names and why the language we use still matters.