
We’re a mother–daughter team: a wonderful 22-year-old woman living with BPD/EUPD, and her writer mum, here to share our story and what we’re learning about this mental health condition.
For now, we’ve chosen to stay anonymous. That way, we can write openly and honestly about our lives without worrying about the impact elsewhere. In time, this may change—but for now, we’re letting the project take shape naturally.
In the UK, hundreds of thousands—maybe millions—of people live with BPD. It can be a devastating condition, both for those with the diagnosis and for those who love them. Yet clear information and meaningful support can be surprisingly hard to find.
This website is our contribution. We’re not professionals; just two people sharing lived experience while also searching out what the science and therapies really say.
This site brings together two perspectives: living with BPD and living alongside it.

Journal – personal stories and reflections from both of us.

Science & Therapy – what the evidence really says about BPD and therapy.

Resources & Reviews – books, podcasts, and self care tools we’ve tried.

Help Right Now – crisis contacts and urgent support.