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  • Waiting For The Other Shoe To Drop

    Waiting For The Other Shoe To Drop

    We’ve cleared out the cupboards, and the wardrobes. Something has shifted. But who knew that things feeling a bit easier could be so challenging?

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  • Why You Feel Dreadful (When It’s Not You Who’s Ill)

    Why You Feel Dreadful (When It’s Not You Who’s Ill)

    Your loved one is the one with BPD — so why do you feel so dreadful? The answer might be in your body, not your mind.

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  • They Offered Me Tea

    They Offered Me Tea

    Here’s what stays with me from that morning: we were both dysregulated. Both of us. I was crying, you were shouting. Both of us were overwhelmed, both of us struggling to cope. But my distress was palatable. Yours was not. I got tea. I got kindness. I got sympathy. You got told to stop.

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  • When It’s Not Just BPD: What We Know About Overlapping Conditions

    When It’s Not Just BPD: What We Know About Overlapping Conditions

    Having BPD and nothing else is the exception, not the rule. So why is most support still built around single diagnoses?

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  • Bold Beautiful Borderline

    Bold Beautiful Borderline

    A podcast on a subject I find really challenging. Rage.

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  • The Pecking Order of Distress

    The Pecking Order of Distress

    A conversation with my daughter about an NHS statistic turned into something bigger: how we rank suffering, how social media shapes diagnosis, and why invisible pain so often needs proof.

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  • A Dive Into The APMS

    A Dive Into The APMS

    A new NHS survey suggests almost 1 in 10 young women screen positive for BPD — and nearly half of those screening positive report getting no treatment at all. So what is this really measuring: a disorder, or the pressure young women are living under?

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  • Me and the Voice in my Head

    Me and the Voice in my Head

    Me and the Voice in My Head is a brave and darkly funny documentary in which comedian Joe Tracini explores life with Borderline Personality Disorder.

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  • Borderline Personality Disorder – What’s In A Name?

    Borderline Personality Disorder – What’s In A Name?

    A look at how one of the most misunderstood mental health diagnoses ended up with multiple names and why the language we use still matters.

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