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Our Journal

A shared journal of our experiences living with and supporting someone with BPD

  • The Pecking Order of Distress

    The Pecking Order of Distress

    A conversation with my daughter about an NHS statistic turned into something bigger: how we rank suffering, how social media shapes diagnosis, and why invisible pain so often needs proof.

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  • Handstands

    Handstands

    You exploded after dinner and I learnt a new skill.

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  • Finding Our Way

    Finding Our Way

    Reflections on how my daughter’s BPD affects us both and my wish to find a shared way for moving forward.

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